Stay Safe While Meeting New Connections
Meeting someone new can be exciting—but your safety always comes first. While you can’t control another person’s actions, you can take steps to protect yourself and create a positive experience.
Our Commitment
Matched By Design promotes safe, respectful connections. We may verify identities at our discretion, but we cannot guarantee anyone’s background or intentions. Always use your best judgment and prioritize your wellbeing.
Practical Safety Tips
- Meet in public and stay in public. Choose well-lit, populated places for early introductions.
- Tell someone you trust. Share who you’re meeting, where, and when.
- Stay in control of transportation. Drive yourself or use rideshare so you can leave .
- Watch your boundaries and beverages. Keep your drink and belongings within sight.
- Know your limits. If you feel pressured or uncomfortable, it’s okay to leave immediately.
- Trust your instincts. If something feels “off,” take it seriously. You never owe anyone your time or explanation.
Emergency and Support Resources
If you ever feel in danger or have been harmed, call 911 (U.S. or Canada) or contact local law enforcement. For additional confidential support, you may also reach:
National Sexual Assault Hotline
1-800-656-4673 (RAINN.org)
National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-7233 (thehotline.org)
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Call or text 988 (988lifeline.org)
Follow-Up and Reporting
If you have a negative experience with someone you met through our services, please contact us at info@matchedbydesign.com. We take safety concerns seriously and can help guide you to appropriate resources.
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